Heartbreaking moment Japanese earthquake survivor holds her dead mother's hand as she says a final goodbye

By Richard Shears

  • Hungry people forage in the snow for scraps of food and firewood
  • 450,000 desperate people squat in makeshift refugee shelters
  • 850,000 people struggling to survive without food and water
  • 20,000 missing in two towns with another 5,000 confirmed dead
Terrible sorrow: Yoshie Murakami holds the hand of her dead mother in the rubble of her home in Rikuzentakata. Her daughter is still missing

Terrible sorrow: Yoshie Murakami holds the hand of her dead mother in the rubble of her home in Rikuzentakata. Her daughter is still missing

Homeless, desperate people clambered over snow-covered debris where their villages had once stood, gathering armloads of firewood as Japan's humanitarian crisis escalated yesterday.

In scenes more befitting a poverty-stricken Third World country than the world's third-richest nation, hungry people wrapped themselves in odd scraps of clothing in a futile attempt to keep out the cold in temperatures only just above freezing.

One of the most heartbreaking images to emerge was of a woman breaking down as found her dead mother's hand among the rubble of her destroyed home.

Yoshie Murakami cried in anguish as she said her final goodbyes and held her mother's hand. The body was discovered after five days of agonising searching in in the tsunami-hit city of Rikuzentakata.

Terribly, her 23-year-old daughter is still missing. All Mrs Murakami can do is pray for a miracle.

Similar scenes unfolded throughout the country as rescuers sifted though the rubble and families prayed that their loved ones were safe and well.

Some residents made homeless by the tragedy foraged for food, crying out with delight when they found an undamaged can of food here, a still-edible packet of noodles there.

They carried their pickings back to refugee centres, set up in buildings which survived the dual assault of earthquake and tsunami on the north east coast of Honshu island, where women had joined together to add the findings to pots of boiled rice.

'It's very sad to realise that the wood we've been picking up is the remains of our houses,' said one man as he stumbled through the debris of homes which had once stood around the picture-postcard harbour in the port of Rikuzentakata.

'But we need fuel for the heaters and there is none – so we must make fires from this wood. A lot of it is dry enough to burn, so we can cook and perhaps keep a little bit warm.' 

Last night flames illuminated the falling snowflakes along a 150-mile stretch of coastline, where bonfires had been lit outside the doorways of evacuation centres, with scores of people taking in turns to warm themselves.

But then they had to return inside and huddle under blankets because there weren't enough fuel heaters, or kerosene to run them.

Some need medicine, more clothing, food, fuel – but most of all they want the nightmare to go away. 'We know it will be a long, long time before we will ever be able to return to a normal kind of life,' said Satoru Fukasu, sitting with his wife in a shelter north of Sendai, the largest city on the east coast.

Horrifying: An aerial shot shows the devastated centre of Wakuya. A boat sits on top of a building at the centre of the photograph

Horrifying: An aerial shot shows the devastated centre of Wakuya. A boat sits on top of a building at the centre of the picture

Kenji Sugawara, with a photo of his miising wife, searches for her through the remains of the devastated city of Otsuchi
A Japanese Self Defence Force soldier prays before removing the body of a tsunami victim

Kenji Sugawara (left), with a photo of his missing wife, searches for her through the remains of the devastated city of Otsuchi: A Japanese Self Defence Force soldier prays before removing the body of a tsunami victim

Deserted: An aerial view of winter snows covering tsunami devastated Minamisanriku town, Miyagi prefecture

After the tsunami, the snow: This aerial view shows how the devastated town of Minamisanriku in the prefecture Miyagi was dusted in white falling a snowfall

Lying on a stone floor under a blanket, a 104-year-old great-grandmother stared at the ceiling, numb from the cold and the shock of what she has endured.

Her granddaughter sat beside her in the evacuation centre near Sendai, not wanting to share their grief with the outside world as she carefully poured water between the old lady's silent lips.

Eventually she revealed: 'My grandmother has lost everything. Her whole house has gone. It is a very personal loss… family members. We suffer greatly. But it is our own pain.'

It was one of countless heartbreaking stories which continued to emerge yesterday.

Japanese fire fighters lower the body of a victim from a two-storey house at a village that was destroyed by the earthquake and tsunami, in Kamaishi
Survivors react after collecting their belongings at their destroyed house in a village hit by an earthquake and tsunami in Otsuchi

Japanese firefighters gently lower the body of a victim from a two-storey house in Kamaishi (left) while the devastation is too much for one man after he collected his belongings in Otsuchi

Heartbreak with no end: A man cries next to his destroyed house where his dead mother is still buried in the rubble in Onagawa

Heartbreak with no end: A man cries next to his destroyed house where his dead mother is still buried in the rubble in Onagawa

An aerial of Wakuya, Japan
Washed away: Wakabayashi town in Sendai, Miyagi Prefecture

Road to hell: An aerial view of the devastated town of Wakuya, Japan, (left) while this image, right, taken by a student from the top of his school shows how the tsunami swamped the town of  Wakabayashi

Wasteland: A resident looks at debris as she walks at a port of a village hit by an earthquake and tsunami in Otsuchi, northeast Japan

Wasteland: A resident looks at the debris left by the disaster as she walks through a village in Otsuchi, north-east Japan

Some 450,000 people are housed in camps across the north of the country. Another 850,000 households are struggling without food and water.

The official death toll has climbed above 4,300, but will continue growing, probably into five figures. There are 10,000 people missing in both Ishinomaki and Minamisanriku. 

More than 110 countries have offered aid. Hundreds of thousands have fled, while as many more are locked in at home.

Huge task: Heavy equipment is used to trawl the rubble for bodies in Rikuzentakata, Iwate

Huge task: Heavy equipment is used to trawl the rubble for bodies in Rikuzentakata, Iwate

Speechless: Tsunami survivors Misato Takahashi, 18, and her sister Asana, leave the devastated area with their aunt Kumi Isawa and uncle Masayoshi for a makeshift evacuation centre after seeing their house swept away by the tsunami

Stunned: Survivors Misato Takahashi, 18, and her sister Asana, leave the devastated area with their aunt Kumi Isawa and uncle Masayoshi for a makeshift evacuation centre after seeing what little remains of their home destroyed by the tsunami

Japanese military personnel carry bodies of victims at a village destroyed by earthquake and tsunami in Yamadamachi, northeast Japan

Japanese military personnel carry bodies of victims at a village destroyed by earthquake and tsunami in Yamadamachi, north-east Japan

If the survivors crowded into rescue centres set up in schools, town halls and other public buildings had held out hope that their missing loved ones might have survived, it was now all but gone.

Instead, their own struggle for survival has become the issue as they shiver in their bitterly-cold surroundings peering out through the doors and windows to watch the snow falling.

The appalling weather has added to the problems for search parties looking for the thousands of bodies known to be buried under wood, slate, mud and vehicles.

Panic buying: Customers crowd to buy salt at a supermarket in Wuhan, Hubei province - many believe salt could help ward off potential radiation effects as a result of Japan's crippled nuclear power plant

Panic buying: Customers crowd to buy salt at a supermarket in Wuhan, Hubei province, China - many believe salt could help ward off potential radiation effects as a result of Japan's crippled nuclear power plant

Disaster zone: A forklift truck lies on its side as a fire rages in the background at Sendai port

Disaster zone: A forklift truck lies flipped on its side as a fire rages in the background at Sendai port

tests: A young child is screened for radiation by men in white coats exposure at a testing in Koriyama City, Fukushima yesterday

Tests: A child is screened for radiation by men in white coats exposure at a testing in Koriyama City, Fukushima

Battling the elements: An elderly woman carries water bottles by bicycle as she braves the snow in Rikuzentakata, Iwate yesterday
Pain: Mika Sato, 36, left, breaks down after finding the body of her daughter Airi in a charred kindergarten bus in Ishinomaki, northern Japan

Battling the elements: An elderly woman carries water bottles by bicycle as she braves the snow in Rikuzentakata, Iwate. Right, Mika Sato, 36, left, breaks down after finding the body of her daughter Airi in a charred kindergarten bus in Ishinomaki, northern Japan

People check a safe they found at their devastated house at Kesennuma, northeastern Japan, on Thursday, March 17

People check a safe they found at their devastated house at Kesennuma, northeastern Japan, on Thursday, March 17

Those already uncovered have been taken to temporary morgues. If there is one blessing the cold weather has brought it is that there is no need for refrigeration for the bodies.

However, generators are being flown in to preserve the bodies when the weather turns warmer if they have not been identified in time.

In one scene of terrible poignancy, Yoshie Murakami found the body of her mother buried in the rubble where their home used to be in Rikuzentakata.

She sobbed as she held the dead woman's hand.

What is most impressive about these people who have lost absolutely everything except the clothes they were wearing when the tsunami struck is the calm with which they are accepting their dire predicament.

They might weep quietly, wring their hands to release some pent-up feelings, but there are no furious demands for action from the authorities. They sit and they wait.

They talk about their escapes – 'It was like I was in a washing machine'… 'I clung to a tree branch' … 'my house crashed down around me as the water carried it along but I got out all right' – and they shed a tear for missing loved ones.

Devastation: A woman walks through snow-covered rubble in Minamisanriku Town, Miyagi in northern Japan

Devastation: A woman walks through snow-covered rubble in Minamisanriku Town, Miyagi in northern Japan

Adrift: A ship floats amongst scattered debris from the city in Wakuya

Adrift: A ship floats amongst scattered debris from the city in Wakuya

They wonder what will happen to them, how long they will have to sit it out in these shelters.

Vital medicines are in short supply – a woman tells how her asthma is bad and she cannot sleep; another says she needs special drops for her eyes to prevent the onset of blindness.

Some have decided not to sit it out. One man, wearing a cloth face mask, told a Japanese TV crew: 'I've looked my last on what was my home town. I'm about to get on a bus to go to Tokyo and I'll never come back. I am so sad about this, but this is the end of my life in this area. I'll start again.'

In the town of Koriyama, 30 miles from the Fukushima nuclear plant, 9,000 refugees are sheltering out of range – they hope – of radioactivity.

'We need food, fuel, water,' the mayor, Masao Haro, told the Mail.

'Everyone is freezing. We ask for help. If anyone is hearing us, please help in whatever way you can.'

 

The comments below have been moderated in advance.

they are still inhumane and derive pleasure from others pain and discomfort. it! - The Voice of Reason, hockley, essex, 17/3/2011 13:23 Sounds more like you than them. You are disgusting beyond belief.

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Agree with you, Eve from Bournemouth. So impossible to read about and look at the pictures of these beautiful people without crying...hope and pray that all starts to get better for them and that they get a ton of help.

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I feel so sad for all those who have lost everything. But mostly, my heart goes out to the families of the Heroes. Ones that are getting radiated trying to stop the meltdown of the reactors. They are going there knowing that they will die from radiation but going out there so that other can be safe. I understand that "need of many out weighs needs of few", but not if that "few" happens to be me. In 9-11, fire fighters and policemen went into the twin towers not knowing that it could collapse. But would they have gone in if they knew it would collapse? I am sure some would have. There is a big difference between knowing that you will die and not knowing. I hope they publish the names of these heroes in the future.

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so so sad to see this devastation hope the world pulls together and helps them in ever way they can times lkike this wee need to put aside our difrencs and help in any way god bless japay

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@ carole cooper, norwich, 17/3/2011 00:27 How can we help them ? Tell us; please. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I'd like to know this too. Does anyone have any information on where people can donate - haven't heard of any disaster appeals as yet. I know that since the first day of the diaster both the Canadian and American Red Cross had set up special relief funds on their websites and all monies donated will go directly to Japan. I am sure if you go to the UK Red Cross webite that they have done the same thing. Another one we have been asked to donate to is Doctors Without Borders. Also the Cdn gov't has posted on their website a list of valid relief agencies rasing money in Japan. If you check the Brit gov't website they may have done the same thing.

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How devastating this must be for the poor people of Japan. My heart went out to the poor lady holding her dead Mother's hand amongst the rubble and the Mother who found her dead child on the bus. I do agree, however, that it is an infringement of their privacy to take photographs of their sadness. Give them some respect at least! My thoughts are with the people of Japan and I sincerely hope they can recover from this. Has a fund even been set up yet I wonder?

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You can't help but feel immense respect for the Japanese. They've held on to their dignity, respect and honour, with no violence or looting. Above that, they still have not given up hope on finding their loved ones. I hope and pray that their rainbow after their storm is close by.

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It makes me incredibly angry that there is no mention on the Comic Relief website as to if they will be donating money to the Japanese tragedy. If they aren't giving to the Japanese, I'm not donating.

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And someone has stood there and took a picture of her. Not try to help or comfort her, just take a picture of her. What's wrong with the world? - David, Bristol, 17/3/2011 13:51=================================Although I agree with what you have said these photographers are equipped with telephoto lenses. They would have been some distance away when taking the photo not right next to the poor woman. .

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After a long time of waiting for the stove fuels, water and food, the first batch of supplies delivered to the refugees of The Minamisoma Village were the 200 coffins...., though, it was no ones intention....... . This news broke my heart a few days ago. However, the situation for the shipments of the relief supplies would improve dramatically from today, since the major roads have been recovered by days-and nights work of construction staff. Nobody is resting.

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