How to Bleach Your Hair Blonde - The Step-by-Step Guide

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Learn How to Bleach Your Hair Blonde at Home!

My detailed how-to step by step instructions for those of you who have always wanted to be able to bleach your hair blonde at home without those expensive trips to the salon! Let me tell you, that money starts to add up and being blonde becomes no longer affordable, but if you do it yourself you can save hundreds of dollars.

After being a victim of the hair salons I was determined to learn how to bleach your hair, and still get the salon quality results. Bleaching your hair is very simple if you just follow these easy instructions and you're on your way to beautiful blonde hair!

Before Getting Into My Hair Bleaching Guide...

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Before Bleaching Your Hair, Read This Step-By-Step Guide

You better know what you're doing before you do anything!

Before reading I would like to let you know that purchasing all of the supplies you need will approximately $40 or less if you choose to go with cheaper brands! (this does not include items I recommend at the end of this article for after-care. These products aren't needed to achieve blonde hair, but they are good to have to maintain beautiful healthy hair).
Please read carefully and thoroughly at least twice. If you skim through this article you may miss some instructions which are crucial to your hair turning out beautiful. Thank you and I hope you enjoy =)

Are you skeptical of bleaching your hair yourself?

Well don't be, you can bleach your hair blonde easily and here's why...

Have you always dreamed of having beautiful blonde hair but never could afford to pay a couple hundred dollars a month at an overpriced salon? Or have you ever told your hairstylist that you wanted your hair really blonde, not just a weave, but all over color? Let me guess she looked at you like you were crazy and told you she will not do it because it will fry your hair off? Yeah. Right. I am revealing the truth to wannabe blondes. You can become blonde for less than $40, and you won't get ripped off at a salon and pay $300 dollars for something that costs them less than $10! I too once was a victim of overpriced salons struggling to keep up with my self adored blonde locks.

I finally decided to go to my local beauty supply store and purchase the items that I needed to do my hair myself. I am not a complete genius and I didn't magically know exactly which products to buy. I had to do a little bit of internet research to get started. But I took a chance, and trust me I was scared! I couldn't believe how simple it was! My hair turned out beautiful, the blonde I always wanted but could never have. Then I dyed my twin sister's hair, and a couple friends from work, they loved it too! People are always shocked when I tell them I do my own hair! And now I want to share my knowledge with all of you.

You may be skeptical. For instance, you have hair that is already colored a brown, red, or black shade, and you don't want it to turn orange from bleaching it? Or you think you will fry your hair off because bleaching is harsh. Well let me give you the honest truth. I naturally have dark brown hair that I used to get weaved every month at a salon. The lady that used to do my hair always left a little bit of roots still showing! She was obviously doing that on purpose so my roots will grow out faster and she will make more money off of me from having to come in more frequently! Ugh!

Finally I got tired of paying so much money to keep my hair blonde, it was not worth it to me anymore. I decided to dye my hair soft black so I wouldn't have to ever worry about roots again. Well about a week later I couldn't stand not being a blonde anymore! I missed it so much. The first step for me was to get the black out of my hair so I bought a COLOR STRIPPER at my local beauty supply store. There are a couple different brands. The brand I prefer is called L'Oreal One N' Only Color Fix, which is an unwanted permanent hair color remover and it will work regardless of how long the color has been on your hair.
Follow the directions of the back of the box and when you are finished your hair is going as orange as the bitch from the fifth element. But don't freak out, it won't stay that way for long. Some people will say that you should spread out the process of stripping, bleaching and toning your hair weeks apart because the process is too harsh. Well if you ask me that is B.S., and my hair is just fine!

I stripped the black from my hair. Then I bleached my hair ONCE, and only once, and then toned it. I will explain how to do this in a moment. If you are a girl that has a light color weave or light brown hair, or you have your natural hair color you do not need to strip you hair color first. Now if you didn't strip your color first you will be bleaching your hair twice, and if you stripped the color off first you can only bleach it once, FOR NOW.

When you are finished with the first bleaching it will turn out blonde. Remember you are still going to tone it so if its a bit yellow its okay! I'm afraid that if you strip the color off of your hair, then bleach twice, and then tone, you might fry your scalp off. Bleaching is the worst part of going blonde and if your hair is already agitated from stripping the color, then bleaching it more than once will be too harsh. If you did not strip color off of your hair first then you will bleach, bleach again, and tone all in the same day.

Since I am a person that stripped the color off of my hair before bleaching it, I only bleached it once. Then I waited about a week to give my hair a break, but not too long of a break because we don't want to get roots yet! After a week then you will completely bleach your hair one more time, and tone one more time. This will make your hair a light blonde. If you are happy with the blonde that you achieve the first time then just stick with that. You don't have to bleach it again. I PROMISE IT WILL LOOK GREAT! I've turned black and dark brown hair platinum blonde, if I can do it you can!

Now, if you're the skeptic who thinks your hair is going to fall out if you bleach it, you're wrong! If you follow my directions that are very clearly laid out for you step by step then you will be fine. My hair is soooooo so thin. I'm not exaggerating, it is really bad. If I try to put it in a low ponytail it looks like a frickin' skinny rope of blonde hair dangling from my head. MY HAIR DID NOT BECOME THIN FROM BLEACHING IT, IT ALWAYS HAS BEEN THIN. Gotta' love genetics! So if my hair doesn't fall out (and I've been doing this for quite a while) then yours definitely will not. Seriously, you have nothing to be worried about! The hairstylists just try to scare you so you won't do your hair yourself, and that way they can continue to make money off of you. Makes sense right?

Now that I have hopefully steered you in the right direction and took away your fear of bleaching your hair, I will now explain step by step how to become a bangin' blondie!

These are the supplies that you will need to bleach your hair

Head to your local beauty supply store

The first thing you should get is a Sally's Beauty Club Card. It is only $5 and it will pay for itself the first time you use it. I save so much money with my Beauty Club Card.
  • L'Oreal Quick N' Blue High Performance Powder lightener, they are sold in individual use packets that are 4.99 each , and almost everyone will need two packets if not more. So that's $15+ in bleach alone each time you dye your hair, which really adds up! So instead, I would recommend buying the tub which is 1 pound, so it is equivalent to 16 bleach packets! The tub is only 24.99 which is an awesome deal, and with your BCC (Beauty Club Card) it is only 19.99. So unless you plan on bleaching your hair only one time, you should buy the 1 pound tub because it is more economical and a great deal!


  • You will need the 30 volume crème developer (the brand I use is Salon Care Professional). These also come in 3 different sizes. Now keep in mind you have to use the developer for the bleach AND the toner. So again, unless you're only dying your hair once I recommend getting the 32 oz bottle (5.89) because it goes by quick! And if you hurry half gallons of 30 volume developer are on sale for 3.99!


  • For the toner you will need Wella Color Charm TONER (careful, they have hair color too!) in Ivory Lady. If you have longer thicker hair you will need to buy TWO boxes.


  • If any of you wanted a more silvery-platinum blonde color you need to buy White Lady instead. Buy one or two boxes depending on your hair type. CAREFUL! Later when I give the instructions for the how to ton your hair, I will say to leave it on for 40 minutes. IF YOU GET WHITE LADY ONLY LEAVE IT ON FOR 15 MINUTES MAX!!! or your hair will literally be silver and you will look like an old hag. =). Also if you decide to go with the White Lady you need to buy a bottle of Salon Care Professional 20 volume crème developer (instead of 30) ,but YOU STILL HAVE TO USE THE 30 VOLUME FOR THE BLEACH! (that's the only down side)
  • IMPORTANT: If you have thin/fine/short/medium-short hair you need to buy ONE tube of purple Ardell Red Gold Corrector Plus(.99/.89BCC). If you have thick/coarse/long/medium long hair you will need to buy TWO tubes of Ardell Red Gold Corrector Plus.

  • Lastly, you will need a packet of Ion Effective Care Intensive Therapy packet which is on sale now for 99 cents at www.sallybeauty.com.


    LETS BEGIN!
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    How To Bleach Your Hair

    Ready to Bleach? Here We Go!

    Step 1: Make sure your hair is thoroughly dry. If you bought the bucket of Quick N' Blue I just start by adding a single scoop in my mixing bowl. Then I take my 30 volume crème developer and eyeball it until the mixture looks like its half developer and half bleach. This way is simple and remember, it doesn't have to be a perfect measurement (but not way off). Then just stir well. If you end up needing more bleach later on just make it the same way as I described above. For those that choose the packets, I don't mess around with those much so I'm unfamiliar with the measurements and weight but there are simple directions on the back of the packet to get a good ratio of developer to powder. I like doing it half and half because it gets blonder because there is a higher concentration of bleach powder in the mixture rather than if it were 2:1.

    Step 2: Start applying bleach to the lengths of your hair first because your roots will lighten the fastest. Then work your way from the back of your head forward. Apply bleach all over head making sure you do not miss any spots, cause' if you do it really sucks to fix them! The amount of time you will let the bleach sit depends on your hair color. If you have a darker color it will take longer, and a lighter color will be faster. My rule of thumb is always to let it sit for at least 30 minutes (which is still cutting it a little short) but no more than 60 minutes because your hair will fry. Most people will leave it for 40-45 minutes. If you think your hair is done you can take a damp towel and wipe off the bleach in one section close to your forehead. If this section looks done then that would mean the rest of your hair is also because you started in the back. KEEP IN MIND: the bleach while still on your hair will make your hair appear to be a lot lighter than it will be when you rinse it off, so don't do it too soon. Be patient =). Beware the bleach doesn't feel very good it might burn a little, especially if your hair is clean. Don't be alarmed, your scalp is not dissolving in acid! I'm kidding its not that intense, it doesn't hurt. I just wanted to warn you it is not delightful!

    Step 3: Rinse hair until water runs clear. Shampoo with your new purple shampoo that you got from Sally Beauty Supply, and rinse again.

    Step 4: Thoroughly blow dry your hair.
    Your hair will be yellowy/ orange. So next time you see people walking down the street with piss yellow hair you can say "Look! She didn't bleach her hair twice!".

    TO AVOID PISS HAIR: We Bleach Again!

    NOW: if you are one of the people who stripped their hair color first, you're only bleaching ONCE! You knew that right? Bleach is harsh so we cannot strip, bleach twice, and tone in one day, baaaad idea.
    If you are one of the people who just started with bleach and didn't need to strip any color, you are going to repeat the bleaching process again. This time you will not need to leave it on much longer than 30 minutes. But be sure to still check it and don't rinse it out two soon. To clarify, you will bleach your hair twice.
    Now that the color strippers and non-color strippers are back on the same page......

    After you bleach your hair its Time to Tone it!!

    You're not done yet keep reading...

    Toning your hair is very crucial to this process. It gives your hair the pretty natural blonde color you want, instead of looking fake, yellow, and orange. *(aka GHETTO and trashy). That's not what we want.

    Step 5: Depending on if your hair is in the not so much, or way too much hair category you will have either bought 1 or 2 boxes of toner. It's your call, but remember it is better safe than sorry! It will not be fun if you run out halfway up your head and half orange half blonde hair. (But if you do there are always hats and hoodies). ;-)
    For the one box people with thin, fine, etc. hair: Empty the contents of the toner bottle into your mixing bowl. The toner is 1.42oz, and with toner we ALWAYS do one part toner to two parts developer. Now if you want to be extremely precise you would then need to add 2.84oz of 30 volume developer. But it is easier to just add 3oz. (It will be fine, trust me! =). The measurements never need to be exact but be careful not to get them too far off.

    FAQ: My mixing bowl has milliliters not ounces, what should I do?
    Well you can do one of two things; 1. Get a measuring cup out of your mom's cupboard and measure 3oz of developer and dump it in your mixing bowl or 2. Stop being so anal! Just kidding, but not really. This is how I do it; add in the toner first by itself and see how many milliliters it adds up to, which will be indicated by your fancy schmancy professional mixing bowl. Say for example the toner was 20mL (which its not) then all you have to do is multiply 20 by 2 and you get 40mL. And from there 20mL+40mL=60mL. So pour the developer until the mixture reaches the 60mL mark. Sorry if I repeat myself a lot I'm am just trying to make these instructions very clear.

    Moving on
    For two box people with thick, long, etc. hair: Do the exact same thing as the one box people above, just double the amounts of the developer and the toner. Remember that the ratio should still be 2:1 So you are going to take your two bottles of toner and dump them in your mixing bowl(3oz). See how many milliliters they add up to in the bowl. Let's say for example, the mixture of your two toners adds up to 70mL according to your mixing bowl. You will multiply 70 by two which is 140. 70mL of toner plus 140mL of developer will equal 210mL all together. Fill the bowl wit developer until it hits the 140 mL mark. Mix well. Keep in mind, my numbers are EXAMPLES and yours will be different. But the math is very simple.

    NOT SO FAST! There is still one more ingredient to complete the purple goop!
    For short/thin/fine/medium-short/one-box-people you will add ONE tube of your purple Ardell Red Gold Corrector Plus. Now you may stir your mixture thoroughly and get ready for action!
    For thick/long/coarse/medium-long/ two-box-people you will add TWO tubes of your purple Ardell Red Gold Corrector Plus. Now you may stir your mixture thoroughly and get ready for action!
    Alright we are all on the same page again.

    Step 6: Apply toner thoroughly saturating all of the hair on your head. Massage your scalp to make sure the toner gets to your roots! Leave on for 40 minutes! (Another reminder if you decided to do the white lady leave on for only 15 minutes, and use a 20 volume crème developer, but still use your tube(s) of Ardell Red Gold Corrector Plus.

    Step 7: Rinse well until water runs clear. Again, shampoo with your purple shampoo. Next you will deep condition with the Ion Effective Care Intensive Therapy packet. Follow instructions on the back, I believe you are supposed to leave it in for at least 4 minutes. Then Rinse!

    Step 8: Blow dry and enjoy being a blonde, cause' we really do have more fun!

    I recommend a reconstructive or moisturizing treatment soon after hair bleached for hydration and damage repair. See below for the products that I love and recommend.

    After Care

    Products That I LOVE

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    When bleaching your hair you always should buy some sort of reconstructive treatment. Bleaching your hair is very harsh and we always need to keep that in mind.

    It's a 10 Miracle Hair Mask

    Can you say baby soft hair? It is named It's a Ten because it does 10 things for your hair: detangles, restores moisture balance, instantly restores elasticity, softens, smoothes, adds shine, enhances body, nourishes, de frizzes, and improves color vibrancy. Wow that is quite the list for just one jar! The directions on the back tell you to put it in your hair after shampooing, let it sit for three minutes, and then rinse it out. What I found worked better for me is to massage a dime size amount into my hair after I towel dry it, I don't rinse it out. It softens your hair better if you do it this way.
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    PURPLE SHAMPOO!!

    This shampoo is vital to keep your blonde hair bright and beautiful. It also helps to take out any extra redness or yellowness in your bleached hair. There are three different brands available that I know of and have used:Shimmer Lights,One N Only Shiny Silver Ultra, and Generic Value Products conditioning purple shampoo. For the price the Generic Value purple shampoo is the best deal. It has the same ingredients and works exactly the same. You can't tell the difference between two brands. Purple shampoo is purple shampoo! Just a small warning, I have tried the Shiny Silver conditioner and it suuuuucckks! Don't buy it! One last thing about purple shampoo, do not use it everyday as it can be harsh to your hair. Use purple shampoo every other day rotating with your normal daily shampoo.
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    More Great After Care Products that I Love

    Bleaching your Hair sure can take a toll

    "Cholesterol" by Queen Helene.
    We don't like it in our food but we sure do love it in our hair (hah)! This is a hair conditioning cream. It works wonders for me because I back comb my hair quite often which leaves tangles, and after using Cholesterol my hair is soft and tangle free! Cholesterol treats and conditions dry over-bleached damaged hair. There are two different sized tubs available, one is 80 oz, and one is 15oz. It is really inexpensive and really good stuff! I would recommend just buying the 15oz tub because I have had the same one for about 4 months and it is only halfway gone. But if you feel like you will be deep conditioning your hair more often than normal get the 80oz tub.

    FOUR MORE AMAZING PRODUCTS

    2. Pearatin. Another one of my favorite hydrating and reconstructive hair care systems

    Add a dime size amount to your hair after it is toweled dry, and then add some more after it is blow dryed! This product really helps my frizz and fly away hairs. Added bonus: It has a color keeper complex, so you can hold on to your bleach blonde hair for longer!
    3. Chi Silk Infusion.This product all of you probably already have, and if you don't you have heard of it. It is the BOMB!

    It is a silk reconstructing complex and it makes your hair so shiny! Apply it after your hair is dry. Be careful not to add too much to your roots as it may cause your hair to look oily.
    4. Moroccan Oil.

    The smell alone would make me buy it! There are no beauty supply stores or salons near my city that carry it so I have to order it online. Amazon and eBay generally have the best prices. This product is known for leaving your hair shiny without making it look oily. It makes your hair incredibly soft and its good for your scalp too! The price is generally around 45 dollars for the oil serum.
    I hope one of these products works out for you! Thanks for reading.

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      ohthatdemoness6 Feb 13, 2012 @ 7:17 pm | delete
      Good read. I have a question though.

      I don't plan to bleach my whole head but just the tips(an inch or two and it's not very thick hair either). I have dark brown/black hair, and I actually want to to go for a complete snow white look. Would it be a good idea for me to leave the bleach or stripper on for a slightly longer time(maybe another 5min or so)? Or would it just be better if I waited another week to put it to my desired color? Thank you for taking the time reading this and any feedback would be greatly appreciated
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      Apexone Feb 11, 2012 @ 12:10 pm | delete
      Hello,
      I appreciate the info so can you please create the process but with Organic/Ammonia-Free Bleach (& needed cream available to the non-licensed) plus toner or can color be used without toner? (Before and after toner photos would be helpful.) And how about a way to group people together to help each other apply it because applying to the back of your own head is not easy-lol ;-). Many thanks. Here are some ammonia-free hair colors:
      ? Herbatint ($10 or so at amazon.com)
      ? Light Mountain ($16 or so at amazon.com)
      ? Surya Henna ($7 or so at amazon.com)
      ? Naturcolor
      ? Rainbow Henna ($8 or so at amazon.com)
      ? Morrocco Method Simply Pure Henna
      ? Color Me Naturally by Aubrey ($16 or so at amazon.com)
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      jimmyworldstar Feb 5, 2012 @ 3:28 pm | delete
      I have no hair to bleach but if you're just starting out I'd avoid doing it at home until you're comfortable enough to start.
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      blondebecky Jan 30, 2012 @ 1:11 pm | delete
      great tips, somehting i need :)
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      smicks Nov 25, 2011 @ 1:32 am | delete
      Good lens, have shown it to my wife,she likes what you have to say.Guess I am getting a bangin' blonde back very soon.cheers :) x
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      laurenrose Nov 15, 2011 @ 10:13 am | delete
      Great lens! Loved reading it :)
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      sdsunfl0wer Oct 24, 2011 @ 4:09 pm | delete
      OMGOSH! It turned out GREAT! All for under $50 compared to $400 at my salon.
      THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! I did everything you said to do and WOW oh WOW! Better than my old salon girl could ever try to do, it's BLONDER than BLONDE and so pretty! My husband can't thank you enough for writing this article :) I owe you! <3 <3 <3
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      dcorneliad Sep 22, 2011 @ 7:29 pm | delete
      I have already bleached once my hair and just now read your instruction. Can I start with the second bleaching using the bleach that you suggested?
      I have used Carol bleach and my hair is orange. I have one week tomorrow
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      KimalyT Aug 25, 2011 @ 5:46 am | delete
      I just have a question, I read alot of reviews on the color fix and some said that if you put anything with proxide on your hair after using it it will redoposit the color back in your hair. Do you know if this is true? Also my hair is about a level 4 but I have colored it medium auburn for years so do I color fix then bleach or do I double bleach? Oh and love the lens!!!
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      AndreaKathleen Aug 23, 2011 @ 2:22 pm | delete
      Hi, Im SO Glad That I Came Across This Post. My Hair Is Two Toned, Blonde Highlights On Top & A Brown Auburn On The Bottom & I Have Been Wanting To Go ALL Blonde For A While But It Takes So Long At The Salon Because The Salon I Go To She Is Gradually Putting Highlights In It & Im To Impatient. I Just Want To Know If I Should Strip The Bottom & Do It That Way Because It Is So Dark & Then After I Do That Do The Top, Or Just Strip It All & Do It All In One Shot. Please Let Me Know How You Would Go About This, I Am So Excited To Try This Out (: Thank You !
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      KrisIsett Aug 23, 2011 @ 11:29 am | delete
      How do you touch up the roots?? and how often do you do an all over bleach process again, if you do?
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      ADAngel1987 Aug 21, 2011 @ 9:55 pm | delete
      Sadly, my experience was not flawless. I used to get my hair highlighted quite a bit but then decided to let my hair grow out natural, then I hated the roots so I decided to bleach it. So now, I have a very unintentional two-toned hair do. I had about two inches of root re-growth and fairly light ends, so now they are unmatching after the whole bleaching process. I will wait a week until I attempt this again. But very informative, thank you!
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      sandala Jul 27, 2011 @ 3:39 pm | delete
      THIS WORKS!!!!!! Love it - I use to pay over $300 to look like this!!!!
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      amandahobbs Apr 4, 2011 @ 2:21 am | delete
      Nice tips...darling...
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      lexicondevil Mar 15, 2011 @ 5:07 am | delete
      Pardon my incredible typos as well. :| It is four in the morning here and I've been up all night worrying about my hair....
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      lexicondevil Mar 15, 2011 @ 4:51 am | delete
      First off, kick-awesome post. Everything was well written and the directions were easy to understand....but fml. I totally screwed up. I followed your directions to a T, bought all of the correct products and read the directions on the back of the tub of bleach five times to make sure I didn't miss anything. Now what happened was: The bleach + developer mix was left on for way, waaaaay too long. The person who was helping me with the back of my hair went apsolutely apeshit. (pardon my french) She thought that the pieces of hair that were sectioned off were too thick and that they wouldn't take since my hair is naturally dark brown. It's also very thick and grows like a weed but I trimmed it short (above my shoulders) and went through it with a razor to thin some of the thickness out before I bleached it and I've never ever had a problem with my hair not lifting enough. What should have only been a 60 minute process turned into a four hour process and this was just bleaching it once! The bleach was left on the back of my hair for so long it's a wonder that it hasn't all fried off. I guess I'm lucky I have a tough scalp...my hair isn't in as bad of shape as it could be but it's not exactly pleasant either. The sides and my bangs are an odd pearly-orange color. Pretty much a radio active ginger. The ends are white. The roots are white. I have burns on my scalp. The ends are dry and brittle and I'm scared to even touch it in case clumps just start flying off like they did when I washed the bleach out (finally). I was so utteraly horror struck. Sitting there washing the bleach out and my hair literally felt like wet half-molded rubber. It didn't help at all that my "helper" was in the bathroom with me wailing her head off that I was going to go bald. That my hair would never ever grow back. That I'd have to buy customised wigs. It was an awful experience and I was thrown into a full blown panic attack over the whole thing. It sucked royal. Fortunately I happen to have a couple of different reconstructors that are packed with proteins. I collected them throughout my trips to the salon. I've been bleaching my hair for two years just like you have. I've just never attempted it at home before. I used Bed Head Dumb Blonde reconstructor, left that on for ten minutes, washed it out. Then I attempted to towel dry it (the hair doesn't seem to want to let go of water. Especially in the back. I remember reading somewhere that that was baaad) then topped that off with Redken Extreme Anti-Snap. Using the reconstructors helped a lot considering the shape my hair was in previously. I also happen to own a bottle of that Moroccan oil and I ran that through my hair like crazy as well. The only reason I went through with the 'at home' method is because I, among many others I'm sure, was a salon victim. I just can't afford it! I would get my hair bleached at the salon for a couple hundred dollars and then go home and add a wacky color to it (seeing as I'm used to having bright purple hair I guess having bright ORANGE hair doesn't look too out of the ordinary on me but it's still just not very cool at all) I remember the salon people telling me that I was lucky that I had a 'blue undertone' in other words an ashy-brown color because if I had red or copper undertones my hair would never ever be able lighten more than one level. Well I guess I am lucky just remind me to pull my head out of my ass and tell me to wash the bleach out after an hour has passed by....it was such a slow process though. The person who was helping me just added more bleach to smaller strands of hair and blah-blah-blah. I cut in numerous times to ask 'What are you even doing back there? This shouldn't be taking this long. You're using too much product, Just chill out and lets get to the front of my head now.' Oh, no. I got snapped at and I had all of these insane denials thrown at me; 'Shutup I know what I'm doing your hair wont lift at all if there isn't enough bleach on the dark bits just sit there and let me do it because you don't know jack about bleaching dark hair like this it isn't taking too long.' I didn't know what would happen if I just washed the bleach off the back and then left that and continued with the front and...I mean how would that even be possible? The point of my post: I'm freaking out over everything. I don't even want to mess with bleaching it again for a second time and I'm not even sure about toning it at this point...my mother is going to buy me a professional salon deep-condotioning and reconstructer treatment and I'm hoping that will build back some of the MANY proteins I lost when my helper made that ultimate fatality and went bleach-zilla on my poor head. I just really need advice from someone who knows their shit. Should I reconstruct for a couple of weeks and then bleach again? Should I forget about bleaching it and just tone it after reconstructing it? Is my hair going to have to stay this color until my natural hair grows out? I'm at an utter loss here. And I fear for my hair so badly...tips, suggestions, advice. Any help at all would be highly appriciated. Your post was great in every way. It was my glorious mistake....I just want any information I could get my hands on that could fix this!! You can reach me on here or by email: idkgodie@yahoo.com. Anything you could throw at me would be FANTASTIC. Thank you. x
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      Sarahhavs Feb 7, 2011 @ 1:28 am | delete
      I finished, following your instructions and my hair is fabulous! You saved my hair :D
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      Sarahhavs Feb 4, 2011 @ 3:49 am | delete
      I re-read your post and understand. I think I freaked when I saw all the orange! I will be bleaching for the second time tomorrow and toning as well. Again, thanks so much for the great lens.
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      Sarahhavs Feb 3, 2011 @ 10:16 am | delete
      hanks for the great post- it's very well written! Even so, a mistake on my end, I misread one part. I thought that you meant: stripping old/new color = only one bleaching, and if one decided not to color-strip= two bleachings. So instead of color-stripping, like you suggested, I put bleach on top of new color. I had older color towards the bottom of my hair as well. But I bleached from bottom to top, like you said, thank goodness. I have very, very long and thick hair (it grows fast- it's not my fault!) and after I finish processing I plan to cut off about 3-4 inches.The roots are almost white, the top is a pale yellowy color, and there is orange towards the bottoms. I left in a conditioner overnight to repair before doing anything else, just to be safe. I was wondering if it is safe to apply color-stripper in spots today (even though I have bleached already) and then tomorrow bleach once more, and tone. Or should I just bleach once more and tone? What do you think?
      Also I was thinking about not bleaching my roots on this next round because they are so much lighter. Any suggestions would be appreciated very much!
      Thank you! :)
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      Tia2 Dec 6, 2010 @ 6:59 am | delete
      Thanks for the tips - I once thought the roots would be more resistant and bleached some strands from the roots first - yup didn't quite turn out right.
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      Tanagra Oct 28, 2010 @ 8:36 pm | delete
      Ok, you said "Then work your way from the back of your head forward. Apply bleach all over head making sure you do not miss any spots, cause' if you do it really sucks to fix them! " Which is exactly what happened to me. Missed a few spots, I stripped and have already bleached, now what? I stripped my hair, the bleached the next day and missed a few spots. It is Thursday I have a wedding Sat to attend. Yup Im in trouble.
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      jakealoo Oct 28, 2010 @ 9:11 pm | delete
      All you have to do is go over the spots you missed with bleach, leave on for 40 minutes or until it looks very light (only the dark spots because you don't want to over process your hair), and I'm assuming that because you didn't strip the spots you missed, after you go over it with bleach it will probably look a little orange. If it does look orange in those spots you can choose to either re-tone just those spots that are orange, or you could just go ahead and re-tone your entire head. It is possible that your hair might not even look orange after you re-bleach just those spots because it was such a small amount, and if that is the case then don't bother toning it (just use your better judgment). Make sure to mix in the red-gold corrector because that helps to really take out the brassiness! Alright, that should do the trick! Good luck, and best wishes to you in your marriage.
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      debbi_b Jan 29, 2010 @ 12:51 am | delete
      Very well put together, informative lens. Good job!
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      hayleylou Jan 22, 2010 @ 5:25 am | delete
      This is an excellent lens, well done, 5 stars anda fav
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      JaguarJulie Jan 16, 2010 @ 6:33 am | delete
      Well, ;) obviously I wouldn't need to do this to my hair ... but I will tell you that back in the stone age, where I am from, there was a time that people used certain products on their hair that provided the most unattractive results. I'm glad to see that the "bleaching" process has so improved for everyone wanting to be a blonde.
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      MiaBellezza Nov 6, 2009 @ 6:01 am | delete
      Hey, you've done an excellent job. I was surprised. 5*!
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      mushtush Oct 16, 2009 @ 5:02 pm | delete
      Thank you for putting so much time into building this page, we all hate spending butt loads of money at the salon. If you have a friend help you it makes it much easier.

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