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When Catherine "Kate" Middleton accepted Prince William's marriage proposal, she became the first commoner (person of non-noble or royal lineage) to marry a future king of England since the 1600s.

Kate will also be the first future queen to have graduated from college and lived with the future king before marriage.

Not much is known about the woman whose life has been compared to Princess Diana's, William's mother, in every way. And undoubtedly, this modern young woman will have to endure this comparison for life.


Kate, 28, met Prince William, who will turn 28 in June, while they were students at the University of St. Andrews in Scotland in 2001. The two roomed on the same floor in the school's dorm and in 2002 moved off campus to a private house with two close friends. The couple has been together for seven years.

Unlike Hollywood starlets, who can't help but get caught in inappropriate situations, Kate has never been seen in a compromising position. She has never given an interview to the press or been caught stumbling out of a nightclub, and, in fact, she has been known to refresh her makeup before leaving a club in the middle of the night.

But the road to wedded bliss hasn't always been romance and roses. The couple separated in 2007 and reports surfaced that Kate's mother had offended the Queen by using the word "toilet" instead of "lavatory." Supposedly, Prince William was horrified when he heard these rumors and called Kate and her mother to apologize for the attacks on her character.

The couple got back together soon after, and engagement rumors have persisted ever since.


Her Family and Early Schooling

Kate's father, Michael, was an airline pilot who met Kate's mother, Carole, when she worked as a flight attendant. They married in 1980. In 1987, they opened Party Pieces, a direct-mail party-supply company.

Through the success of Party Pieces, Mr. and Mrs. Middleton were able to send their three children (Kate has two younger siblings, Pippa and James) to Britain's top schools. Kate attended Marlborough, one of England's most elite institutions, where fellow students come from aristocratic and royal families.

While in school, Kate was nicknamed "Princess-in-Waiting" by her classmates because she never misbehaved. She didn't smoke or drink, and didn't date often.

The future princess was popular in school and had a self-deprecating sense of humor, saying once, "I'm a bit thick."

First Impressions

Kate is also the first royal bride to model lingerie. William's future bride was wearing a sheer dress with black underwear. At the Don't Walk charity fashion show in March 2002, Prince William was overheard telling his friend Fergus Boyd, "Wow, Fergus, Kate's hot!"

After the show the two spent a few minutes alone at a party and toasted Kate's success. The two were talking and a friend who witnessed the encounter recalls, "There was definitely chemistry between them and Kate had really made an impression on William, but she played it very cool. She didn't want to give off the wrong impression or make it too easy for him."

Her Career, or Lack Thereof

Unlike her late mother-in-law, Princess Diana, Kate has not held a steady job since graduating from college in 2007. Dubbed by the British tabloids as "Waity Katie" for her aversion to work, Kate has taken on a number of jobs that she held for only a short time.

After graduation, Kate was hired as an accessory buyer at the British chain Jigsaw, but lasted less than a year. She took the job with the stipulation that she could leave whenever she wanted, for however long she wanted, whenever Prince William called. She has since held a job at her parents' party-supply company.

Royal aides have said that the Queen is concerned that the future princess doesn't have a full-time job and has suggested that charity work fill her time to offset a negative public perception.

An aide told the Daily Mail, "The Queen has made it known that she feels Kate should get involved with a charity, possibly an animal charity, where she can be seen to be doing something proactive and something entirely safe. It is important that Kate isn't seen to be doing anything controversial, and she needs to do something completely different from any of the charity work that Diana did."

The Sunday Telegraph reported recently that a royal insider confirmed that Kate was scheduled to attend several charity events prior to the wedding announcement, adding: "She will take a higher profile before the engagement is announced."

Will She Fit In?

Claudia Joseph, who authored Kate's biography, Kate: Kate Middleton: Princess in Waiting, in 2009, has said of Kate's upbringing: "Kate has been brought up to eat with the right knife and fork." She added that all Buckingham Palace wants in a prospective spouse is 'etiquette and style.' I don't think it's about the right background."

The world assumed that the royal family approved of the match when the couple was spotted kissing in public while on vacation with Prince William's father, Prince Charles, and brother, Prince Harry.

The term "commoner," which has been used to describe the future princess, simply means that she has no relatives or any connection to nobility or royalty. The last time a future British king married a commoner was in 1660 when the future King James II secretly wed Anne Hyde in the middle of the night. The country was outraged, but the future Queen Anne gave birth to two queens subsequently, Mary and Anne.

Today, royals across the world are not so concerned with the ancestry of a royal spouse. Crown Prince Felipe of Spain married a former journalist in 2004 and Swedish Crown Princess Victoria, who is heir to the throne, is marrying a former fitness trainer this month.

"William's not doing anything unique by choosing a commoner," says Marilyn Braun, who writes the blog The Kate Middleton Report. "It's about who he loves, and that's that. People are rooting for him to be happy, especially after Charles and Diana's marriage."

The Diana Factor

After the world watched the fairy-tale wedding of Prince Charles to Lady Diana in 1981 that imploded in the 1990s, royal watchers agree that the royal family has shifted its attitudes as to who would make a good spouse for the future king of England.

Lady Diana was a 20-year-old kindergarten teacher with a blueblood past, a virgin who seemed to know her place when she got engaged to Prince Charles, who was 32 at the time. Looking back at video footage of the engaged couple, it's obvious that she was in love with her prince, while Charles was not in love with her. He was in love with Camilla Parker Bowles, his current wife, whom the palace deemed an unsuitable wife for the future king in the 1970s.


Royal watchers have assumed that Prince William's parents' divorce in 1996 accounts for his reluctance to say "I do" at a young age. He once said in an interview that he thinks 28 is a good age to get married. He'll be 28 on June 21.

Kate Middleton is sure to garner the same attention Princess Diana did when she became Her Royal Highness Princess Charles of Wales (royal women take their husband's full title), and some are speculating that the marriage will increase the popularity of the royal family, which has been in decline since the untimely death of Princess Diana in 1997.

While William waits to become king of England, which may not happen until he is in his fifties -- most royal experts believe that Prince Charles still wants the "top job," as it is called -- Kate Middleton will be known as Her Royal Highness Princess William of Wales. Kate will become Queen Catherine when William is crowned king.




  • lisa

    I wish them both much happiness. Diana did a good job with her son. I'm sure she is a wonderful girl.

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  • LAURAJ

    WHO GIVES A RATS!! BET ENGLAND COULD USE ANOTHER ROYAL MOUTH TO FEED!! LMAO ROTF

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  • martha

    she is NOTHING like diana -- physically or mentally -- THANK HEAVENS

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  • Kevin

    Who cares about the Queen of England? Millions of dollars will be spent and I am quite sure could be used to help the people of england. So stupid

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  • Tex

    When she "accepted Prince William's marriage proposal, she became the first commoner (person of non-noble or royal lineage) to marry a future king of England since the 1600s." .....No, but when she actually marries him she will have that distinction. There's many a slip twixt the cup and the lip.

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  • Mary

    I wish them both happiness. After the tragedies in his life, and having to live under scrutiny all the time, I hope they find solace and happiness with each other. Everyone needs a refuge from the world, with someone they trust and love... a best friend.

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  • Jim W

    Why in the world do we Americans even care about the Royals and who they will inbreed with? I'd think we have enough on our plate already that this sort of thing shouldn't even make it to the society page. Why is it breaking news to CNN? Give us a break!

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  • Kevin

    Who's is the future Queen of England? It's not Kate Middleton. She will marry William. But she's not heir to The Thrown, she can't be Queen. She can be the wife of the King, if William is King someday. But she can never be Queen; anymore than the current Queen, Queen Elizabeth's husband (What's his name?) can be King.

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  • TON

    PRINCESS DIANA HAS DEFINATELY LEFT COMMENDABLE SONS BEHIND....HER CHARM, GRACE AND INFLUENCE IS QUITE OBVIOUS IN SPITE OF DUMBO EARS AND HIS TOO MUCH TO SAY PARENTS BOTH LIZ AND PHIL.....TRUE COMMONERS WHO LIVED THEIR LIVES ON OTHER PEOPLES ROYAL BLOOD THROUGH THE CENTURIES......HOPE THEY STAY....FAR....OUT OF THE LIVES OF THESE 2 YOUNG PEOPLE.....ITS A NEW WORLD AND HIS BLOOD SAYS HE WILL HAVE TO RULE BUT LET THEM DO IT IN .....THIS CENTURY......AND NOT ON 500 YEAR OLD STUPID OUTDATED RULES.....POOR KATE.....THE THOUGHT OF CAMILLA AS A MOTHER IN LAW.......YUCK.....

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  • bellasartes2010

    Kate is cute and pretty. Now she must dodge the poperazzi.

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  • trish

    Congras to both, very nice looking couple. Diana was a true Princess, dispite her husband, although in one of his intreviews I did see how charming he is. I don't know why I feel such deep fondness for the Roayal family but I do. They are a goodwill family of England, yes they do a lot of good, that is their JOB that's why England pays them, they are charming and get out there to get to know the people and their needs, this is why I like them. Carmellia is another story.

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  • Margery

    I too admire the Royal family. Always have, but still think Harry was fathered by Diana's lover. He sure doesn't resemble any of them and that red hair. Wonder if a DNA test was ever done. Probably has and they are praying he never gets near to being a king one day.

  • Rick

    Does anyone other than the news media and aol give a CRAP??????

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  • Anne H.

    No, and anyone that does ignores reality for the sake of believing this shit.

  • willy

    That thieving family of Windsor should be required to return all the money they have stolen and pressed out of the "commoners". Then they should be stripped of their titles and given real names instead of these ridiculous royal highness shmyness. prince this and that.

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  • Trixie

    The monarchy only cares if the girl uses the correct knife and fork and shows proper manners? I'm speechless. This is a new level of superficiality...but isn't that what the monarchy really is?

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  • THOMAS

    what about a harem?

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  • John

    I wil give it three years. Man, is he ugly.

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  • Bob

    Wow, I think she's HOT! Lucky boy!!

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  • Steve

    When in this dance of Love, never hold her too tightly as to exert your perceived control of what can never be controlled. Hold her as though you will let her go, this is important for your shared existence. Hold her close but not too close as to suffocate her will, she must realize even though your Love for her is real, it is not sure. As you hold her hand in yours, hold it as though it is the end of a handshake. It is sure but it is ending, this is important for her to understand that your Love together has strength but she must know you are ready to leave it if she betrays you. In this dance as you twirl around your other hand is the guide, the guide to her passion. You must use your thumbed side to your hand in the center of her back, here you can assure her of your Love but that your desire is her passion. Never use the hand in full until your Love is shared, you will know when this happens. As you casually look into her eyes, look deeply then look away as though to state your intentions but that they are unsure. To hold your intended Love this way is the way to true control of her passions, if not done in this way, her Love is fleeting.

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