I love surfing. Becoming MGTOW got me to the point where I moved house and can now open my back curtains on the morning and see what the waves are like. I get far more enjoyment from a morning surfing than I ever got from any date, holiday with a partner, expensive meal out, my engagement party and wedding, any promotion in work, and most of the expensive toys I had in my 'previous life' bar a few cars. Find something you really enjoy doing and replace 'surfing' with that and you'll feel amazing.