About a week ago my husband had a liver transplantation, that was the only thing that could save his life and I’m so very happy and thankful to doctors that it went well and he’s recovering.
He’s out of the ICU and people are allowed to visit him now. Today his sister came and she had her little daughter with her, 8 years old. The little girl wanted to see her uncle, fair enough.
Everyone who visits must wear a surgical robe over their clothing and a surgical mask in order to protect him from outside microbes. I’m with him almost 24/7 and I always wear it, it’s uncomfortable for sure but it’s for his good.
So the nurse gave his sister and her daughter the robes, they put them on and the girl started to whine that she doesn’t like it and it stinks ( that smell that hospitals have ) and she won’t wear that. She took it off and her mother was like „Well, that’s no big deal.”
I was like, hell no, it is a big deal. Doctors told us to wear it because the last thing he needs right now is some kind of virus or infection, so either she wears it or she’s not coming in.
His sister got angry. „ She’s just a little child, what virus could she possibly have?”
I’m sorry, but children are the ones who carry the most germs. They touch everything and don’t wash their hands, they don’t know to cover their mouths when coughing or sneezing and so on.
I literary stood in the doorway and I said that she can come and see him as she had her robe on but her daugther will only come in if she puts the robe on too.
She walked past me and was like „Bitch.”
She acted as if I was doing this because I wanted it. I’m doing this because people who are way more smarter than she and me together told us to. My husband ( her brother, btw ) just had a very serious surgery and I’m not risking his life and health just because her daughter doesn’t want to wear a robe.
The girl didn’t come in, she was whining and crying, mumbling about how bad I am and how she wants her uncle. I told her - you want to see your uncle? Put this on and you’re free to go and say hi to him. She snapped back „no!”, kicked the robe away and turned her back at me. Well, as you wish. I don’t understand what her problem was to be honest.
After visiting my husband her mother came out, glared at me hatefully, took her daughter and went away, without even saying goodbye to me. I don’t care if I insulted them or not, nothing is more important to me than my husband’s health. So glad we don't have kids.
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