TL;DR: discovered mgtow, dont know how to explain it to mom and other relatives. (guy from germany, indian origin)
I discovered MGTOW (and Pick Up) a few weeks ago and i don't know how to tell it my mom. I honestly do not want to break her heart.
I would love this new life: Graduate from University, move to a bigger City, e.g. Berlin (i'm from Germany,indian origin), live alone, work as a software engineer and party every Friday night without alcohol, because you don't need it anymore AND no f*cking arranged marriage.
My mom would accept this. She is not a strict person. The Problem is: When we meet our relatives, they are already married and have kids. My mom smiles every time, when she holds our cousins' baby. And i also see sadness in her face. She paid for my university and has done everything for me. I don't want to hurt her.
But she is also a little bit naive. She doesn't know that my cousins wife has an affair with his boss and they only live together because he needs his job and they do it for the baby. And the Indian community in Germany wouldn't "accept" a divorce, not to mention the MGTOW movement.
I just don't know how to explain my mom, that she will never have grandchildren or see them probably in 10-15 years when i found the right person?
(please excuse any Grammer mistakes.)
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